He achieved everything. It wasn’t enough.
In our achievement culture, we’re all faced with a choice that beats in the background of our lives: what matters?
Milt Abel II left home and achieved all he set out to do. The legendary pastry chef moved from some of the top restaurants in the U.S., to the top restaurants in the world. But through it all, like a bassline, he had moments where he came face to face with questions his achievements couldn’t answer. His father’s sickness. His own child.
At such moments, what do our achievements mean? How do they matter? What should we sacrifice?
This Father’s Day, whether you’re a father, a son, or a daughter, take 15 minutes with someone you love to watch this short film. It’ll be a vehicle to bring you closer — more in-tune, you might say — with whomever you watch it with. This beautiful and moving piece was made by Breakwater Studios and directed by Ben Proudfoot, who has helped Young Life staff engage in what matters through storytelling.
After, ask a few questions:
- The film captures some powerful statements. Which statements or phrases stood out to you?
- In the film, Milt Abel II (son and pastry chef) talked about his occupation by saying, “That’s my jazz.” What do you think he meant? What’s your jazz?
- When Milt went home he said he had an “inkling” that led to a significant moment for him and his family. When have you had a similar inkling?
- The film articulated a difference between “life’s work” and “life’s purpose.” What do you think the difference is? How would you define each in your life?
- Milt’s dad was able to be a “hall of fame musician and a hall of fame dad.” Can you be both? Where is there tension around this in your life?
And if you enjoyed this, drop us a line at ylcommunity@sc.younglife.org. We’d love to hear your story!
